We went to Tampines West Community Center (TWCC) to help mentoring children. At briefing on 12th September, we were informed by the lecturer as well as mentor that why the children need such an organization is because their parents lose control of them when they are afterschool while parents are still on work. In TWCC, the activities designed for the children mainly includes doing homework with assistance (if necessary), playing indoor sports and have a summing-up of their performance that day. The children each has a record of his or her performance, which is represented by stars.
My main challenge there is to blend in the kids’ group. The children are at their age of 6 to 12, so it’s understandable that we undergraduate students should change our way of communication to fit in. I remember the first ice breaker was when a kid talked to me without shyness. Being inspired, I tried to play with the children. I played badminton with a very young kid one day and he failed to hit the target frequently. I was afraid he got upset, and unfortunately, he did. However, luckily the group saved us: we decided to play with another two or three friends together to reduce the sense of personal honor but increase the joy of collaboration. What I learned is that, besides patience, it is also important to think of the mental need of the young when mentoring children. We need to help them find good about themselves.
In addition, I am also impressed how the evaluating system help encouraged good deeds among children. Before the children go home, there is always a summing-up to let them recommend people who have done something good among themselves. Then there will be a star as a reward for those who do good deeds. This kind of system not only promote children helping each other, but also provide the chances for them to discover the kindness of others.
